I have been “seeing” a guy for about a month. However for three weeks now I am stuck in another state house sitting for my parents while they gallivant around Europe.
Said boy has just informed me that he is going to a bachelor party this weekend, asking if I was jealous. This is what I got in return when I made a joke about being right near the beach, asking if he was jealous.
I sent back - “I don’t think jealous is the word…”
And now no reply.
See, I don’t wanna come off as some controlling girlfriend, especially when I’m not his girlfriend. But I am worried. Actually I am more worried, that I am not sure if I am allowed to be worried. Hope that’s not confusing…
Seriously, I couldn’t care less if they go to a strip club or something like that. Hey, I see strippers pretty much every weekend. Well, burlesque style ones, and am one myself. But I have no idea what boundaries we are meant to have or not have.
And he has NO IDEA of what I didn’t do, and who I didn’t see just because of him.